Understanding our real relations

In todays world how many relations are real ?
We have friends but can't be sure if they will be with us till the long and bad phases if life , we have relatives but aren't sure that all they will think is about the betterment of ours , we have teachers but can't assure that she will actually guide us in a correct way or not depending upon the situation , we have partners but aren't sure about whether they'll be true to us or not....
We all I am sure u must have experienced of or all of such cases in our lives by now ...
I'll share an example with all of u :
When I was in school I thought that I found a real friend because we had things in common even our chooses about things were common, unfortunately we managed to like the same girl... But a scene such happened that because of that one girl our friendship which was known to be the most difficult one to break actually ripped and we became the best if enemies .... That day I asked myself a question that was he actually the real friend whom I thought I can just share anything with... ? With this incidence I started to learn a lot of things by just observing people and their change ...
Many of us might have friends who play with the emotions of many others of the opposite sex... Have we ever thought that if they do not respect those people who love them that can be either their partner or family members will such people be worth the time u r going to spend upon them ?
I have had many friends and experiencing everytime something different from each one of them and their relations ... I saw some cry , I saw some cheat , I saw some getting depressed whereas I even saw some fleet.... But in the end I realised that what is the use of these tears and lies in the relations all they do is make a relation weak and a weak relation is just like a weak structure which is hampered in the wind and us then very difficult to built is up again.... Relations are the most delicate thing in the world , all it depends is upon u how well do u manage to keep it and till which extent u actually take it to... I remember a friend of mine, well we shared the same philosophy ... We couldn't tolerate people Who have never valued their relations and always went on like nomads ... I always wished to do something and directly or indirectly help these nomads to understand the actual value and pain that is caused after the breaking of relations.... Life is nothing but a perfect mixture of happiness,sadness and joy and is very simple if we want it to be that way....
It is important for us to know and reorganise who actually are our real relations and try and avoid fake people as they won't ever help us grow and if they see us growing They will make sure that we are pulled down and never succeed in our life's ... But our real relations will always guide us like teachers , scold us like parents , talk to us like friends , tacke our problems like councillors , help us out if various problems and protect us like a young child... Such people are rarely found and are termed differently by all of us... So keep such people close to u always and ur relation as fresh as ever...
Cheers