Saturday, August 25, 2012

Fake relations

What is the first thought which struck ur mind when u heard of this heading ... And what all examples flashed ur mind...
I am sure that some of us thought about family relations , others thought about their bf/gf respectively , some thought about their friends and so on...
Many of us must have realised by now that life is nothing but a mystery in which every day u get a new clue by learning something new each day and then solving our ploblems with those clues in search of finding the correct answer to that mystery ....
We have reAlised that when we hear problems it is never limited to business or education or future but also our social life...
The question here arises as to why do we need to think so much about our social life , is it true that our life has become so fast that the relations have now started to become hollow , we have forgotten the beautiful culture of our country in a greed to do on with the pathetic foreign trend ... Where as its sad to say but even the people residing abroad are now interested in our culture because they feel it is the best way to lead a happy life and this we can only realise when we ourselves follow our culture...
Note- Please do not mix our culture with rumors and thoughts though there is a thin line between both...
What we get to see these days is in case of the young generation a bf cheating his gf or vice versa or relations for the greed of money etc.... In case of family we find fights on the family because of nonsense reasons just because of egoism or the influence of stupid serials etc. And in case if friends useing each other as a step towards our own selfish motive not considering about the others at all... In short a fake world with fake people is what we observe each day ....  We have other serious things to be thought upon then y waste our precious time on issues such as fake relations ...
Is this all where we are heading to a world on which u can not stay out of competition not away from egoist and fake people ... It's time that we change ourselves and people around is if we desire to live a life with happiness and lesser one of our most growing but unwanted stress from today....
So let's promise ourselves to make a better and tension free tomorrow ...

Monday, August 20, 2012

facebook took a life... :o

today in this world of internet... our life and interactions with various people has become very easy thanks to such social sites that now with just one click we can do wonders sitting at home...
we can have fun with our friends here but has anyone realized how much do they affect us and our lives..
now we tend to play all games online and sit in front of the net just so that we can interact with multiple people in just one go saving our time but sometimes what we do and we say we never realize until and unless something happens and its actually serious...
Recenlt a young woman from Jammu committed suicide in her college's hostel room here after two boys allegedly posted obscene comments on her Facebook page, police said Thursday.
( http://www.hindustantimes.com/India-news/Punjab/Student-hangs-herself-over-obscene-Facebook-comments/Article1-914388.aspx)
i want to ask a question is this the kind of fun we thought about , is this the level of our maturity, is this what we have been taught.... the answer is NO.. we look for a society where there is no discrimination.. we have fun but we do remember that we do not hurt someone's sentiments during that time and if intentionally we do it then we aren't worth forgiveness  but if unintentionally its done then we can always seek forgiveness from others ....
we must remember that to have fun is very important but not at the cost of hurting someone....