False Allegations

It us hard to see someone progress in the right manner through the right process today which is why sevral of us have choosen then quickest way to deal with building image that is by getting into the most Prettiest activity of putting False Accusions on other.
  The society wasn't just over with beauty of Humanity,  but it was thanks to these few selfish and greedy people that helped change the society drastically with their increasing activities of being notorious for various reasons may it be Fame, Work,  Money, Revenge, Ego.. Etc.
  From the beginning of a political party to the waking up of an injured person on road all what we see is nothing but existence of False Accusations being levied on people to harness their Image. It has been wisely said by a learned person that,  " False Accusions may let you grow only once but every person has their time to take their respect back ".
    It has become such an indispensable part of our society  today that some of our so called upcoming politicians have choosen this way to not just grow into a new Party but to also build a better image in order to let down the workings of the government without realising that the fault will never lie of the party but the common man who is bound to pay such corrupt his money via taxes and bribes asked in every stage to keep going his image and avoiding false Accusions.
   But why only politicians today even the poor wishes to curb the Wealthy by hitting over their wealth in a big way in order to grab their money back in 3 folds or threaten him. In sevral court judgements it has been vitnesssed that this organised form of crime has now reached a stage where when a genuine person tries to help a person injured on road no matter of whose fault it may be they accuse them back for in the want to grab more wealth from them.
  The worst stage is when we today see this disease enter the roots of professional life where Accusions are made on the Image of a person to which no value and amount can be enuff to compensate his years if effort to rebuild tyat stature and level of respect back after one such False allegation. Which is why we must be very careful of what and to whom we say all of these things. For they can hurt sentiments of people who are genuine and have been working for their image for such people are good untill u don't harness their image which is the only thing they have earned since the passage of time.
   The disease went so viral that it not just crossed all social boundaries but also entered the personal houses making marriage a joke today and trust and faith some lesson of an old book which is unread since years. The increasing number of cases of false accusations in marriages relating to the character of a person, his parents, his relitives, demand for dowry etc have all been mocked so bad.
   Growth is truly important but not at the cost of the other persons reputation or emotional falsification. People will help you grow only if you are able to understand the basic principle of life that what you do will come back to you. It is a circle of life that moves round and so when you do a wrong you must be prepared for the outcome.
  It is sad today in this fast growing world
That we have choosen to move from 2G to 4G, two wheelers to 4 wheelers,  single storied markets to generator working malls, simple constructions to millionaire designs but from being rich at heart to being negativly poor with feelings and emotions today   ....

" Always have the courage to step into someone else's shoes and feel the pain a genuine person is made to go through because of just one greed / ego of urs ".  

" words and bullets of a gun can be shot once and never returned ever again after hitting the person so aimed so be careful "

Hope after this thought we can sit to introspective and for once are able to confess all wrongs so done in life for a better tomorrow... 💭

Importance of Teachers in Society

Each profession occupies a specific niche in society — doctors heal, engineers design and bankers handle our money,  lawyers help us provide justice, armed forces help us maintain security and safety BUT Teachers stands out as a subsumptive entity. At a preliminary stage, teachers instill the transcendent faculties of communication, decision making and awareness of social responsibilities. They are the only ones that help us in maintaing the perfect balance in life in order for us to be able to become what we dream. FOR EVERY ENGIENER, POLICE OFFICER, LAWYER, JUDGER, ARMY COMMANDER, PRIME MINSTER, CHIEF MINISTER, CEO ETC there is one common entity being a Teacher who helps and motivates us to libe our dream.
    Later in life, no matter which field we may opt to choose to pursue but then again we turn ourselves into being a teacher for someone else no matter if the student is arjuna or iklavya.
I often wonder about teachers who educated famous people such as Einstien and Abraham Lincoln. Were these teachers specially qualified to inspire their students to achieve fame and success? Or were these teachers just plain lucky to have talented students? Do some teachers have rare qualities of turning them into gold ?
The answer may not be easy to find. A great person once said, "Teaching is a profession that teaches all other professions."

A strong information base and well developed capabilities of comprehension and analysis are critical for progress. These crucial responsibilities of inculcating knowledge, kindling inspiration and encouraging creative thought are all vested in the teacher.

From ancient times, teachers have been playing an important role in our society. Behind every successful engineer or doctor there is a teacher.

Keeping in mind the increasing trend of both parents working long hours, the teacher is also expected to build a strong moral character and provide emotional support. Thus, the teacher has to build a rapport with the student and be simultaneously approachable and authoritative. His/her role encompasses that of an instructor, friend, role model and confidant. 
A person who teaches us moral values, a person who encourages us is a teacher. In Indian culture, we praise teachers more than Gods. Alexander the Great once said, "I am indebted to my father for living, but to my teacher for living well."
For we havent seen God but our teachers are the ones that help us in the path of life by being our friend, family. Guiding path throughout our journey of life or in simple words a subsidiary to the Lords angels sent to bless and inspire Growth.

HAPPY TEACHERS DAY FOR U ALL CAME IN MY LIFE IN VARIOUS ROLES BUT HELPED ME TO LEARN SOMETHING BETTER EACH DAY

Its always either EGO or Respect ... !!!!!

Ego a 3 letter word with a dictionary meaning " your conscious mind, the part of your identity that you consider as your self. " Respect a 7 letter word meaning nothing at all beyond the literal meaning " a way of treating or thinking about something or someone in a positive and polite manner "

In life it is very important for us to understand the basic concept as to what actually is respect and where does ego stand in to understand completely that why is it practical to have only either of both the feelings in life.

For example when you are accompanied by a group of friends you are bound to make fun , talk openly and enjoy the moment for this is the real work of friendship that you can ease upto them on anything and everything. This is also why a very famous line came into being asking this logical that you can not change the people around you but are sensible enuff to change those whom you choose to be around with. Remember in life you may respect several but just because of that one wrong step of your where you are unable to discriminate between what is your ego and where is your respect you tend to loose a lot of people. To explain it further here is a situation where you are accompanied by your friends including the ones of the opposite sex and meet casually in a place where since the first minute talks are loud and jokes are on with high respect but to just lighten the mood and frustration that we all face in each days work life could be because of various reasons but then this is why you choose to be surrounded by friends. 

In such situations when you tend to defend your statements as correct but the comments by others as disrespecting and offencive with huge literature words you logically are over looking facts for ur suffering from an incurable disease known an EGO that has dominated your mind which is bound to come at purely immature stages. In life it is a very immature stage to be touchy on small conversations like a baby with a bib when the reality is that you yourself choose to be a party to such company voluntarily. Practical aspect of life says that to enjoy life you must be above this disease and enjoy the moment with the types of people who have chosen to be surrounded with for the moment and in the moment without ill words being said. It is very true that words and bullets once shot can never be never returned so be careful in situations but also learn to enjoy the moment with it as the persons that suffer this incurable disease might commit a bunder which is then irreparable for life. Life and Trust are so thickly joined in life that once life gives you an opportunity to utilise and enjoy it and you curse the moment then you tend to never be able to rectify it ever in life just as the case of a broken mirror .

What we talk must be planned and well thought of considering everyone else , etc are things too much to work on for that brain that is already drenched and which is why it chooses its company and its surroundings , also a major reasons why people have their groups for them to be happy.

There lies another clan of people that are bound by not their own respect but the words of what other people say to them  which they term seldomly as self respect and boast proudly of their misconception and rather no respect level in society to fake out an identity which in real senses doesn't seem to exist. Such people suffering from the incurable disease need to learn to differentiate a lot of basic concepts for they are not just mixing 2 concepts but also confusing other basic things in life and making things even more complicated for which their base becomes a start with a lie and decorated talks there after as a cover to hide their disease.

Similar to this is the concept of ego and attitude

Attitude is a settled way of thinking or feeling about something or also uncooperative behavior,  for example meeting a group of ppl and one of them acts snooty in that group is his attitude when that behaviour is made to lead a misunderstanding keeping it as basis it turns into ego and here respect only lies a chance to being able to have the power to listen to all of this for because of someone else's association with you is Respect.

In life when you work genuinely for people but hide it you do it for respect but the minute you choose to do it for the sake of respect you start to mistake a good gesture with the Ego clash inside you that makes you ill. 

Therefore we can also say that with Ego comes anger which is the worst form of feeling untill and unless you seek to loose all your respect in that minute and forgo several relations and emotions for a is conception or a disease as we may see it purely as.

Since years we as Indians hear about our historical Stories but we fail to understand the basic gist in this education system as to what made this all happen, why a brother fought a brother, families spilt, a saint became the cause of a fight against his guru whom he loved, Goddess Vashnoo devi was made to run so far and hide in caves but even then for a basic respect of the devotion the temple of Bharav nath has been made above and the trip stands incomplete without it, shree krishna was made to teach arjun to use his weapon, Lord Shiva was made to let the Ganga flow and various other stories about our nation which all indicate towards the difference of not being able to demarcate a simple line of action between facts.

In terms of Indian History :-
The leading creation of the mahabharta was nothing but just simply a demarcation of respect being exaggerated to the level until it became the ego now of someone else which unintentionally not took just one but several lives of both the party and the innocent... 

Several families where divorces or partisans are seen as a part of family disruptencies is also nothing much more than the respect being offered confused with ego. In the case of The fall of the kingfisher empire it was the respect of mallya that made him earn goodwill and his ego that made his own ppl against him today. The politicians that were bribed from the scratch respected him for his word also let him travel abroad so easily but when to bring a change one talks about bringing him back but refusal of his new government who is made to be paid a handsome amount for his safety ignores it all is the Ego.

The war on Kashmir has been limited to talks for we Indians since years respect Humanity and know the importance of life which is why we tend to stay calm on various issues like Passage of GST, increase of basic rates and taxis, ant graft bill, lokpal, Kashmir being an independent territory of India on which china and Pakistan have claimed their land, tibit being a part of the Indian territory been given to China as a gift to avoid Ego which can lead to loss of several more lives, but the constant terror, slogans of anti nationalism, corrupt governance, intrusions after warnings etc are rewards of one action which is Ego of these countries and it is this ego which since the last 70 years has never let peace prevail In the valley for an issue which is not more than a 4 hour war for us is stopped for respect to humanity or else the killing of one more terrorist could be a part of our ego hence cleaning the rest of the clan of insurgents and politicians leading to it within 4-6 hours of intelligence and armies combined effort.

THIS is where we all need to understand rather than just criticise,  we need to be clear in our lives as to why and till when is it respect and where is it ego to avoid a condition and name that is as good as not existing.

EGO since years has ruined the condition of Indians, Pakistanis, businesses, families etc for they confused the respect to let it contravene with their EGO or attitude turned EGO in an incooperative way.

Not only we as Indians but the world in its war on crude oil which led to nuclear war on heroshima and nagasaki,  first world war and secound world war, constant war of Shia and suni sect, fight of words in politics may it be US polls between democratic and Republic party or Indian polls between our parties all suffer from this leading problem of not being able to differentiate between these terms.

The fall of several empires, the division of several homes since history the world is a proof to the fact that nothing could have ever witnessed the fall of people and lives for because of Ego and Respect being a basis everywhere couldn't have had been made to be demarcated.

In terms of international context :-
The war between us and Iraq was led for the ego of us that prevailed, the war on China Sea is nothing but the ego of China which dominates because of which it tried to take on several territory's but the avoidance of another world war today stands because of just one universal factor that is some respect for humanity and existence of physical presence of people.

Killing of Lord Jesus and cursing the entire jew clan was ego but sacrificing of his life for humanity and friendship was respect for feelings , emotions and values.

Intrusion of China in India regularly is ego but staying silent is the respect that China needs to understand the fact that once we give respect but its only untill u dont show ur Ego in excess in this stage.

Hence, similarly in day-to-day business as well as big matters while analysing the power of a person or nation we determine one aspect making it a respect issue but forget to see the minute details which all indicate towards one lesson that,  any person or nation that knows how to conquer their ego inspite of several bads will be respected for its value for years to come because ego might have ruined the respect of years in seconds.

It is important for us to learn life as it is from what it is around us and think if we as humans are commuting the same blunders by because of ego we are being unable to demarcate the line of respect verses ego.

Its time you thought about humanity now...So I leave thjs question onto you to choose either your Ego or Respect. 

Have u ever witnessed a man like this ?

In the earlier times we would always hear about the saints who knew everything about their lives and would help us as well with our own lives . After this we would all innocently start to ponder upon if such people existed , where they are, how will we know their genuineness in today's No Trust times .... etc.
        What is a the real definition of a saint. It is nothing more than a person who knows what is right and what is wrong someone with super knowledge about reading the art of hand well. Somethings that today is referred as Jyotish Vidya.

There was a small boy named Karma who grew up with a brother named Kamal who was 6 years elder to him and a sister Keerath. The family was a well known family of a small town of Bulanistan ( illustrated town ) . They lived with their parents in their ancestral house. The kids were nourished with the best of education and did their schooling with a balance of both fun and excellence . Soon time flew with the growth of the children being able to witness the first travel of tome with Kamal moving Abroad for work and Karma and Keerath preferring to stay within this wonderful nation.
    The middle child soon lost his father and was left alone to handle the responsibilities of both his mother and sister. He would often call out her name , " MAATE , where are you " , " Maate ill be home soon today and will take you for a drive " ... Things went on and the mother was able to turn herself out of grief pain by engrossing herself into Pooja and looking after her children now. the family had by now prepared itself for another phase of change by this time and it was time enuff for them to get their sister married so Karma's Marriage was possible and the mothers responsibilities were freed of .
       And finally Karma found his own batchmate who was a successful diplomat of the Government of India and got his sister to marry his mate Shaan. Shaan was a highly respected Diplomat who was responsible for the affairs of the government abroad. Maate was very relieved to see them marry . Shaan and Keerath were soon blessed with a child and the happiness began with yet another phase of change within the family. The world would revolve around their son for all of them .The child was named Dilpreet. The first of a kind family with everyone being a perfect blend of happy bonding. There after came a new ebtry to the family was the marriage of Karma with Keerti.
   Keerti was a teacher who took care of the entire family as one unit and spent all her life looking after Karma. Soon keerath was blessed with 2 daugters and here on the otherside Karma was blessed with 3 daughters over the period of time .
Some where down the line on the back of the scenes Kamal was also married but couldnt adjust to the first wife and by now was into a second marriage.
All of them where happy in their lifes when one fine day Shaan meets Karma and tells him a secret shaking the entire life of all families from now.
   Shaan shares with him a finding that he was told by a Jyotish about his life span not being more and wanted him to take the responsibilities of all 3 children and his sister after him. Kamal took it light to agree to something as being able to look beyond. when he realised that as per what was told shaan had witnessed 2 of the same incidents as it is on time and his 3rd posting was due on the same place where the last attack was destined. The family could not collectively afford to change destiny so decided to stay with what was scheduled . Shaan was told by everyone to not visit the area but for his children and wife to be able to get a better standard of life after his death he had to choose the path of destiny . BOOM
The entire family was shaken with a blow witnessing things now once again. Keerath was moved wither her 2 daughters and 1 son with Karma and keerti who took care of their stay while Maate helped their children to groom. All of these 6 children grew up and got married busy in their lives when they witnessed Maate's loss , Keeraths health being worsened with oldage and multiple problems being witnessed by Karma. Karma even after so many problems like Last stage of Cancer , sever heart attack , bypass operation , stunt , brain damage, vicious paralisys always remained positive with a glow on his face to face every problem in front of him boldly and positively till his last breath when before leaving he made some confessions to all his children and grand children that now he is tiered to trouble his wife long enuff when he knows that by this time life isnt more than about 4 months max more for him he choose to sacrifise it before to make his wife strong.

So have u witnessed such sacrifices before in your life where people of such character and with so many responsibilities are able to stay ever positive with a jovial nature to live life end their life not just so easily but as a sacrifice so that their famly can adjust to it easily.
After all have u seen some Reconsile with death yet again ?

Find a man of Such Significance and witness the Change in ur life ...

Mothers Are Awesome ( Mothers day Special )

Mothers Day Special ...
{ it takes a big heart to be a mother }

The only source of Human Existence is a mother ... we first open our eyes we see her ... The only living form of goddesses are Mothers for the powers our religious books refer to are nothing but the duties a mother has to obey ... Lordess Durga G with multiple hands is a mother with multiple duties of a sister , daughter , friend , teacher , phiolosopher everything possible ... Lordess Saraswati G a symbol of how mothers spend their entire  life's for growing us with education and talent , Lordess Kali maa the form of a mother when she sees her child in pain or distress to fight from the society ... We may argue with u , we may fight , we may scream at times but trust us nothing is because of u its because of us the stress that we go through we know there is no one we can ever Trust ... Maa , Mother , Ammi , Maa-mi , Maa-Si , Granny, Nani , Aunt, ma'am , mummy , mummaa no matter how You call your mother but remember at least for once tell her how lucky you are to have her besides you , Tell her how much you value her and remember she wants nothing more than you being happy the path could be hers but the reason will always be you ...
And I Admit we can never ever be anywhere near to the love that you are able to Give ... Thank You to my Lordess who brought me and protected me always like a shadow , who revived me like Lordess Parvati ...

I would also thank all those beautiful ladies who are Mothers or are going to be mothers because there is nothing much big and beyond this duty of a mother ... Like it's said the Product is how u manufacture even we humans are a product of how our parents help us while we were being built ... Thank you To all Mothers Ur love Is and will always remain unmatched .... it was because of you all that we could find love even if the mother for another son but her love was pure for us
#SaluteYouAll
HAPPY Mothers Day to all the Mothers in this world , May lord bless us all with just this one connectivity called love which we try to learn from you #ThankYou

   
                      A Small Story that always Brings a tear in my eye when i remember this day and I'm sure when you remember your mothers it will remind you of their sacrifice that they are or might have made .... "  

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Mother’s Sacrifice

My mom only had one eye. I hated her… she was such an embarrassment. My mom ran a small shop at a flea market. She collected little weeds and such to sell… anything for the money we needed she was such an embarrassment. There was this one day during elementary school.

I remember that it was field day, and my mom came. I was so embarrassed. How could she do this to me? I threw her a hateful look and ran out. The next day at school… “Your mom only has one eye?!” and they taunted me.

I wished that my mom would just disappear from this world so I said to my mom, “Mom, why don’t you have the other eye?! You’re only going to make me a laughingstock. Why don’t you just die?” My mom did not respond. I guess I felt a little bad, but at the same time, it felt good to think that I had said what I’d wanted to say all this time. Maybe it was because my mom hadn’t punished me, but I didn’t think that I had hurt her feelings very badly.

That night… I woke up, and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water. My mom was crying there, so quietly, as if she was afraid that she might wake me. I took a look at her, and then turned away. Because of the thing I had said to her earlier, there was something pinching at me in the corner of my heart. Even so, I hated my mother who was crying out of her one eye. So I told myself that I would grow up and become successful, because I hated my one-eyed mom and our desperate poverty.

Then I studied really hard. I left my mother and came to Seoul and studied, and got accepted in the Seoul University with all the confidence I had. Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. Then I had kids, too. Now I’m living happily as a successful man. I like it here because it’s a place that doesn’t remind me of my mom.

This happiness was getting bigger and bigger, when someone unexpected came to see me “What?! Who’s this?!” It was my mother… Still with her one eye. It felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on me. My little girl ran away, scared of my mom’s eye.

And I asked her, “Who are you? I don’t know you!!” as if I tried to make that real. I screamed at her “How dare you come to my house and scare my daughter! Get out of here now!!” And to this, my mother quietly answered, “oh, I’m so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address,” and she disappeared. Thank goodness… she doesn’t recognize me. I was quite relieved. I told myself that I wasn’t going to care, or think about this for the rest of my life.

Then a wave of relief came upon me… one day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. I lied to my wife saying that I was going on a business trip. After the reunion, I went down to the old shack, that I used to call a house…just out of curiosity there, I found my mother fallen on the cold ground. But I did not shed a single tear. She had a piece of paper in her hand…. it was a letter to me.

She wrote:

My son, I think my life has been long enough now. And… I won’t visit Seoul anymore… but would it be too much to ask if I wanted you to come visit me once in a while? I miss you so much. And I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. But I decided not to go to the school…. For you… I’m sorry that I only have one eye, and I was an embarrassment for you. You see, when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. As a mother, I couldn’t stand watching you having to grow up with only one eye… so I gave you mine… I was so proud of my son that was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye. I was never upset at you for anything you did. The couple times that you were angry with me. I thought to myself, ‘it’s because he loves me.’ I miss the times when you were still young around me. I miss you so much. I love you. You mean the world to me.My World Shattered.  I hated the person who only lived for me .   I cried for My Mother, I didn’t know of any way that will make up for my worst deeds…

Moral:  Never Ever hate anyone for their disabilities.  Never disrespect your parents, don’t ignore and under estimate their sacrifices.  They give us life, they raise us better than they had been, they give and keep trying to give better than they ever had.  They never wish unwell for their kids even in their wildest dreams.  They always try showing right path and being motivator.  Parents give up all for kids, forgive all mistakes made by kids.  There is no way to repay what they done for kids, all we can do is try giving what they need and it is just time, love and respect.

I respect women for they are or will be Mothers 

Mental Disorder - a point to think again

Mental disorder

The government survey talks about 12-15 million youth to suffer from mental disorder being faced by teens in India in the year 2005 . The approx census today should be somewhere near to 50 million people as discussed by our honorable health Minter again in the Parliament today. THE disease consists of both mental and physical torcher. As per he average tests done by the company the diseases usually observed are nothing but depression and anxiety and our parliament debates on it today .

    The problem isn't the debate but it actually is just the debate . It has been seen that the Indian Governments have been well known for their ability to stay well versed about its citizens and their status upon life where as since 60+ years All we have been engaged in is dialogs and being blind copy cats of the system . A great leader once said the power of work is not delivered by the power of his words but the determination to act for that work . It is very important that we start to take that determination within us to get this change in the society . The government we choose no matter who is on the chair will not fetch us any good .

The discussions upon such sensitive issues isn't the demand of the nation today . THE FUTURE DEMANDS  a strategy that should be futuristic enuff to tackle the conditions like change in the study method and practical approach to exams , re introduction of values etc . People don't just quit their lives and get into drugs they are indirectly forced into leading this because of the failure of our system . A System that we may agree to or not but we all actually consist of and govern both directly and indirectly . It is just our one wrong move and Bang GAME over....

It's time u gave a serious thought to what and how u want to up bring ur society around u  ... Start with u today and see the change tomorrow  .... values are an investment for which if done correct may make u earn huge chunks in the near future ...
Till then stay safe and think Big

JAI Hind