Its always either EGO or Respect ... !!!!!

Ego a 3 letter word with a dictionary meaning " your conscious mind, the part of your identity that you consider as your self. " Respect a 7 letter word meaning nothing at all beyond the literal meaning " a way of treating or thinking about something or someone in a positive and polite manner "

In life it is very important for us to understand the basic concept as to what actually is respect and where does ego stand in to understand completely that why is it practical to have only either of both the feelings in life.

For example when you are accompanied by a group of friends you are bound to make fun , talk openly and enjoy the moment for this is the real work of friendship that you can ease upto them on anything and everything. This is also why a very famous line came into being asking this logical that you can not change the people around you but are sensible enuff to change those whom you choose to be around with. Remember in life you may respect several but just because of that one wrong step of your where you are unable to discriminate between what is your ego and where is your respect you tend to loose a lot of people. To explain it further here is a situation where you are accompanied by your friends including the ones of the opposite sex and meet casually in a place where since the first minute talks are loud and jokes are on with high respect but to just lighten the mood and frustration that we all face in each days work life could be because of various reasons but then this is why you choose to be surrounded by friends. 

In such situations when you tend to defend your statements as correct but the comments by others as disrespecting and offencive with huge literature words you logically are over looking facts for ur suffering from an incurable disease known an EGO that has dominated your mind which is bound to come at purely immature stages. In life it is a very immature stage to be touchy on small conversations like a baby with a bib when the reality is that you yourself choose to be a party to such company voluntarily. Practical aspect of life says that to enjoy life you must be above this disease and enjoy the moment with the types of people who have chosen to be surrounded with for the moment and in the moment without ill words being said. It is very true that words and bullets once shot can never be never returned so be careful in situations but also learn to enjoy the moment with it as the persons that suffer this incurable disease might commit a bunder which is then irreparable for life. Life and Trust are so thickly joined in life that once life gives you an opportunity to utilise and enjoy it and you curse the moment then you tend to never be able to rectify it ever in life just as the case of a broken mirror .

What we talk must be planned and well thought of considering everyone else , etc are things too much to work on for that brain that is already drenched and which is why it chooses its company and its surroundings , also a major reasons why people have their groups for them to be happy.

There lies another clan of people that are bound by not their own respect but the words of what other people say to them  which they term seldomly as self respect and boast proudly of their misconception and rather no respect level in society to fake out an identity which in real senses doesn't seem to exist. Such people suffering from the incurable disease need to learn to differentiate a lot of basic concepts for they are not just mixing 2 concepts but also confusing other basic things in life and making things even more complicated for which their base becomes a start with a lie and decorated talks there after as a cover to hide their disease.

Similar to this is the concept of ego and attitude

Attitude is a settled way of thinking or feeling about something or also uncooperative behavior,  for example meeting a group of ppl and one of them acts snooty in that group is his attitude when that behaviour is made to lead a misunderstanding keeping it as basis it turns into ego and here respect only lies a chance to being able to have the power to listen to all of this for because of someone else's association with you is Respect.

In life when you work genuinely for people but hide it you do it for respect but the minute you choose to do it for the sake of respect you start to mistake a good gesture with the Ego clash inside you that makes you ill. 

Therefore we can also say that with Ego comes anger which is the worst form of feeling untill and unless you seek to loose all your respect in that minute and forgo several relations and emotions for a is conception or a disease as we may see it purely as.

Since years we as Indians hear about our historical Stories but we fail to understand the basic gist in this education system as to what made this all happen, why a brother fought a brother, families spilt, a saint became the cause of a fight against his guru whom he loved, Goddess Vashnoo devi was made to run so far and hide in caves but even then for a basic respect of the devotion the temple of Bharav nath has been made above and the trip stands incomplete without it, shree krishna was made to teach arjun to use his weapon, Lord Shiva was made to let the Ganga flow and various other stories about our nation which all indicate towards the difference of not being able to demarcate a simple line of action between facts.

In terms of Indian History :-
The leading creation of the mahabharta was nothing but just simply a demarcation of respect being exaggerated to the level until it became the ego now of someone else which unintentionally not took just one but several lives of both the party and the innocent... 

Several families where divorces or partisans are seen as a part of family disruptencies is also nothing much more than the respect being offered confused with ego. In the case of The fall of the kingfisher empire it was the respect of mallya that made him earn goodwill and his ego that made his own ppl against him today. The politicians that were bribed from the scratch respected him for his word also let him travel abroad so easily but when to bring a change one talks about bringing him back but refusal of his new government who is made to be paid a handsome amount for his safety ignores it all is the Ego.

The war on Kashmir has been limited to talks for we Indians since years respect Humanity and know the importance of life which is why we tend to stay calm on various issues like Passage of GST, increase of basic rates and taxis, ant graft bill, lokpal, Kashmir being an independent territory of India on which china and Pakistan have claimed their land, tibit being a part of the Indian territory been given to China as a gift to avoid Ego which can lead to loss of several more lives, but the constant terror, slogans of anti nationalism, corrupt governance, intrusions after warnings etc are rewards of one action which is Ego of these countries and it is this ego which since the last 70 years has never let peace prevail In the valley for an issue which is not more than a 4 hour war for us is stopped for respect to humanity or else the killing of one more terrorist could be a part of our ego hence cleaning the rest of the clan of insurgents and politicians leading to it within 4-6 hours of intelligence and armies combined effort.

THIS is where we all need to understand rather than just criticise,  we need to be clear in our lives as to why and till when is it respect and where is it ego to avoid a condition and name that is as good as not existing.

EGO since years has ruined the condition of Indians, Pakistanis, businesses, families etc for they confused the respect to let it contravene with their EGO or attitude turned EGO in an incooperative way.

Not only we as Indians but the world in its war on crude oil which led to nuclear war on heroshima and nagasaki,  first world war and secound world war, constant war of Shia and suni sect, fight of words in politics may it be US polls between democratic and Republic party or Indian polls between our parties all suffer from this leading problem of not being able to differentiate between these terms.

The fall of several empires, the division of several homes since history the world is a proof to the fact that nothing could have ever witnessed the fall of people and lives for because of Ego and Respect being a basis everywhere couldn't have had been made to be demarcated.

In terms of international context :-
The war between us and Iraq was led for the ego of us that prevailed, the war on China Sea is nothing but the ego of China which dominates because of which it tried to take on several territory's but the avoidance of another world war today stands because of just one universal factor that is some respect for humanity and existence of physical presence of people.

Killing of Lord Jesus and cursing the entire jew clan was ego but sacrificing of his life for humanity and friendship was respect for feelings , emotions and values.

Intrusion of China in India regularly is ego but staying silent is the respect that China needs to understand the fact that once we give respect but its only untill u dont show ur Ego in excess in this stage.

Hence, similarly in day-to-day business as well as big matters while analysing the power of a person or nation we determine one aspect making it a respect issue but forget to see the minute details which all indicate towards one lesson that,  any person or nation that knows how to conquer their ego inspite of several bads will be respected for its value for years to come because ego might have ruined the respect of years in seconds.

It is important for us to learn life as it is from what it is around us and think if we as humans are commuting the same blunders by because of ego we are being unable to demarcate the line of respect verses ego.

Its time you thought about humanity now...So I leave thjs question onto you to choose either your Ego or Respect.